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November 25, 2006

Life Is Not Like a Box of Chocolates: Lies the movies told us

Filed under: Humor,Movies,OC Weekly — gregstacy @ 6:41 am

In many movies, even the classics, there comes a scene where the action screeches to a halt, the music swells and the camera sweeps in for a long, loving close-up as one of the characters imparts unto us the picture’s Big, Important Message. New Yorker film critic Pauline Kael warned us about just such scenes, observing that it was as if the film’s director was jabbing us in the ribs and saying, “Listen to this; it’s pure gold.” Such is the power of cinema that we all too often accept the truth of the Big, Important Message without question. But, as the following instructive chart reveals, sometimes there is truth in the Message and sometimes the Message is pure Bandini.

Movie: Forrest Gump
Line: “Life is like a box of chocolates… you never know what you’re gonna get.”
Spoken by: Forrest Gump (Tom Hanks).
Circumstance: Forrest is sitting on a bus bench, accosting a stranger with the story of his life.
Real life accuracy: Stupid is as stupid does, and not only is this line a stupid way to look at life, it’s a stupid way to look at a box of chocolates. Has Forrest never looked inside a chocolate box and noticed one of those little diagrams that tell you which flavor is which?

Movie: The Wizard of Oz
Line: “If I ever go looking for my heart’s desire again, I won’t look any further than my own backyard. Because if it isn’t there, I never really lost it to begin with!”
Spoken by: Dorothy (Judy Garland).
Circumstance: Dorothy awakens from her Technicolor dream of Oz to find herself back in drab, sepia-toned Kansas.
Real-life accuracy: Maybe the biggest lie in the movies. If you can’t find your heart’s desire in Kansas, get the hell out of Kansas! Not to be a blue state snot or anything, but frankly I don’t know how many heart’s desires you could find in Kansas.

Movie: Yellow Submarine
Line: “All You Need is Love”
Spoken by: A cartoon John Lennon.
Circumstance: The Blue Meanies send out the Dreadful Flying Glove to “o-BLUE-terate” the Beatles, but Lennon defeats it with these magic words.
Real-life accuracy: To paraphrase Keith Richards, “All you need is love, huh? Yeah, well, try livin’ on it.” It must be pointed out, however, that we have yet to test the real-life accuracy of love as a weapon against giant, flying glove monsters.

Movie: The Breakfast Club
Line: “When you grow up, your heart dies.”
Spoken by: The goth chick (Ally Sheedy).
Circumstance: The kids are commiserating about their awful home lives when Sheedy drops this pearl.
Real-life accuracy: When you grow up, your heart does, indeed, die.

Movie: The Empire Strikes Back
Line: “Do or do not. There is no try.”
Spoken by: Yoda (voice of Frank Oz).
Circumstance: Luke Skywalker has been trudging through the swamps of Dagobah all day with Yoda on his back, and when the exhausted apprentice Jedi fails to lift a spaceship through sheer will alone, Yoda berates him with this line.
Real-life accuracy: There is no try? So, there’s no such thing as a worthy effort? Ever? We’re not supposed to admire people who take bold risks, even if they fall short? Well, screw that, you moldy little sock-puppet.

Movie: Love Story
Line: “Love means never having to say you’re sorry”
Spoken by: Ryan O’Neal
Circumstance: Rich jock Oliver (O’Neal) murmurs this deathless line to his impoverished, scrappy girlfriend, Jennifer (Ali MacGraw).
Real-life accuracy: This is such a dopey line I’m not even sure the people who made the movie thought it made sense. Seriously, try getting through a relationship with any woman on Earth without apologizing on a semi-daily basis.

Movie: The Rocky Horror Picture Show
Line: “Don’t dream it, be it.”
Spoken by: Dr. Frank N. Furter
Circumstance: After a night of murder, bisexual seduction and turning people into statues, the good doctor purrs this line while lazily floating in the castle pool on a life preserver labeled “TITANIC”.
Real-life accuracy: As pithy and true as the golden rule. Who would have guessed that a homicidal drag queen from another planet could be such a font of wisdom?



  1. Not Yoda! Sock puppet kicks butt, still.

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